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How to Survive the Divorce Epidemic

12
May,2015

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If you want to withstand the divorce epidemic you must self-vaccinate by learning upgraded conflict skills. The skills that I am going to give you may make the difference in determining if your marriage will last. A recent study at…

Divorcing With Good Karma

10
May,2015

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Dear Judge Michele, My wife brought her new boyfriend to court. It made me so angry I had to walk out. We have been separated for only a month. I can’t even look at her, let alone divide our belongings….

How Your Breakup Now Affects Your Future Karma

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May,2015

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“I don’t think this relationship is going anywhere, its not you its me, or I think we should see other people.” No matter how you say it breakup is torture. Whether you are divorcing or just breaking up with a…

Can We Learn From Our Past Relationships?

6
May,2015

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As a judge in family court, my daily hope is that break ups become less common. But the facts do not support my desire, and the cultural reality is that the national wedding bouquet is soon to be constructed of…

Breaking the News About Divorce

11
May,2014

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How To Tell Your Spouse You Want A Divorce How You Commence Your Case May Define It’s Conclusion. Judge Michele, I have been thinking about divorce for over a year. I waited till after the holidays, and now I am…

Getting Full Custody

10
May,2014

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I have been a judge in family court for seventeen years and, with few exceptions, I have found that those who insist on sole custody of their children often don’t really know what it entails. In fairness, neither do those…

Wedding Black & Blues

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May,2014

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How to Prevent The Wedding Black And Blues: The Child You Had with Your Ex is Getting Married The last time you saw your ex-husband, maybe you said to yourself: “I will see him in hell.” Perhaps you thought of…

Why Mediate

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May,2014

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As a judge in Family Court for 19 years I can tell you the divorcing process can be jagged and unpredictable. The people are usually raw, frightened and bewildered. It is hard to imagine that given these complexities a court…